BDSM Guide for Mistress

The best BDSM Guide for Mistress Part 1

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The best BDSM Guide for Mistress Part 1

1– Make Him Kiss Your Feet

This act is femdom 101/ Having your slave on his knees and worshipping your feet is one of the biggest power shift actions there are.

It is a great activity if the sub has a foot fetish and or the Domme, she gets to tower over her lowly subject and feel the power she has over him.

2-  Make Him Kiss Your Ass

A step up from number 1 above, this is a VERY humiliating task for a guy to perform.

Especially if you make a show of it by lowering your jeans, hitching your skirt up, and wiggling your ass while laughing sadistically as he kneels behind you.

Have him kiss your cheeks and tell you how much he loves it

3– Have Him Kiss Or Lick Your Boots

A perfect way to start a session, either a pro-real-time session or a kinky bedroom foreplay session.

As you enter, make him get on his knees (Or if he’s already there, stand in front of him) and then order him to kiss your boots, starting at the toes and not to neglect the heel.

To add a further bit of humiliation, you can sit on a chair and make him lick the soles of your boots as well.

4– Verbal Degradation

Giving a sub a good verbal tongue lashing is something that happens in all femdom sessions, regardless of it’s a cam or household one.

You can let fly with a volley of abuse, calling him all sorts of names and giving him all sorts of insults. Useless, pathetic, loser, wanker, asshole and dickhead are all common.

It can just be a roleplay “I hate you” type, or it can be a more specific “I gave you a task to do and you failed it”.

Either way, you can release your tension and make him stand there and take it. It is important to lay ground rules beforehand, however.

Some things might not be acceptable to him, or you for that matter. If he wears glasses, for example, make sure he is ok being called speccy or four eyes. If he is overweight, be sure to clarify he is fine with being called lardass.

If you are a couple who use this as an amateur activity in your femdom scenarios, please remember that some things said, even if its just part of the game, cannot be unsaid and so both parties need to be in agreement about what’s ok and what isn’t.

5– Change His Name

If you are a webcam Mistress or a real-time Dominatrix, you can change his name whenever you talk to him or he comes to you for sessions.

If you are an amateur, it can be for whenever you like (a great thing to do is call him by his new humiliating name when out in public.

None of the vanilla people will know but you both will!). You can change it to a girl’s name such as Susan, Betsy, Jamima or Jessy if he is a sissy (or not, it’s actually more humiliating that way), a dog’s name such as Rex, Fido, or spot, or you can call him spud, Shrek or just plain old loser.

6– Make Him Wear Your Underwear

It is a very humiliating experience for a man to have to wear women’s knickers or panties so make him wear yours. His shame at wearing frilly knickers or lacy panties will keep him humble and prevent any flashes of defiance.

This act works great if you are wearing a short skirt or dress and you let him see you take your knickers off and hand them to him to wear. Now not only are you commando, but he is also in your undies.

7– Dress Him Up Like A Woman

It is impossible to describe the utter feeling of shame for a man to be forced to dress as a woman.

To wear frilly panties, a dress, stockings, a wig, and have makeup applied. He will be so embarrassed he will be meek, humble, and more willing to do as he is told.

This is also a good time to apply list no 5 as well. Forced feminization works well for conflicted crossdressers as they are free from the guilt as “she made me do it”

8– Don’t Allow Him To Stand

Making your slave kneel to kiss your feet or bow in your presence is one thing but to deny him the right to stand and make him crawl around on his knees all the time, even when performing tasks you have given him?

Well, that’s a whole other ballgame. Being on his knees to worship and rub your feet, kiss your arse or show is submissiveness will be fine for him but there is something different about being forbidden from standing.

You can make him scurry around by giving him time limits to do things (20 seconds to fetch you a glass of water for example)

9– Put A Collar On Him

Nothing says owned like wearing a collar put on you by a dominant female. If your slave still has a bit of resistance in him, make it a pink collar, maybe with a little bell that dings when he moves. You can buy cheap collars that say “bitch”, “owned”, “property” or “pet” on them.

Some Mistresses like to padlock it round their slave’s neck so they have a feeling of complete powerlessness over being owned – some people have a fetish for collars check out the Shop page for more on these types of kinky ideas

10– Abuse His Cock And Balls

Right between his legs is the most sensitive area a man has so if you really want to hurt him, this is where you go and the possibilities are endless.

You can kick him between the legs, slap his balls, beat them with a belt or cane, drip hot candle wax on them, tie them up tightly with shoelaces or whack his balls with a wooden spoon and make him squirm, yelp and plead for mercy.

The control you will have over him as he strives to avoid your torture will give you a power rush.

Be aware, however, a flaccid penis can take an incredible amount of abuse but an erect one is much more sensitive and delicate. As such, the abuse dished out to it needs to be done carefully and not so brutal. – Ideas for Cock & Ball Torture

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